SoTamBlue......Real Life Black Girl '78

There is only one way your husband should react to saying i do. I got that JOY JOY JOY JOY down in my heart!! So lets see we are just about 5 months exactly away. I will put the deposit on the location this week... YAY for tax refunds !! I have a wedding planner now: Eboni aka Judy Holiday- She loves me, she understands i may be calm and chill now BUT will prolly act crazy come August, I think she is ready, and like i said she loves me: she came by the other night and we made it happen, i changed my colors again. I think i have my photographer and my invitation website, thats gonna be fresh a wedding website LOL. In reality TV. i missed everything this week with overtime and wedding planning i cant find time for my shows LOL but i did see I love money: poor bones =( i dont know what they were thinking. MUSIC: I listen to this song a few times this morning and it made me feel great. I love good music.

have a strong and successful week. its NOT in vain

Because Nikki Likes Books Babies and Black People

Ok now we can really get some planning jumping off. Im going to go and put the deposit on the location next month for sure. After that I really don’t all the way know. I have a wedding planner now even though I haven’t met with her yet, she is one of my best friends we can knock this out in no time. Speaking of friends NIKKI BLAK is having a birthday again this year. I guess she gone have one every year for the next 90 or so years so I betta get to remembering. I have been low key looking for gifts for her since like Jan. I aint found shit. So I thought I would put together a lil montage of video’s for her from now until her birthday The first video for nikki is. We don’t rock tracks like that. Cuz what nik can do is some HAIR. This video really touched me because how she spelled MESS. Im confused Im sure you are wondering how come i have not talked about the great reality television that i have been watching. so let me just recap. I Love Money: how old is safari? her voice is killing ...

because it is Friday and so far i have not done one more thing to plan this weeding outside of looking at magazine. in goodnews my lil sweet six month old is in his own room. so have a laff on me: This lil girl made my morning

Let the Count Down Being. Our wedding is Set for August 16, 2009 3:00pm For the record it is NO easy task to plan a wedding with little to no money, working a FULL time Job, caring for a 6 month old and still trying look good for your partner. No matter how much you are in love its work to plan a wedding on a TIGHT budget. Every day i think, Lets just go to the court house on Wednesday I'll take a long lunch or something. LOL But instead we keep planning. My girlfriend said something MOST important. " do you want a Wedding or a Marriage" we i said marriage, she said then everything else will work out. so i will from time to time update you on the planning of this wedding. We have the location (for the most part) Its a place in Pasadena and because i am still planning and i have not put my deposit down all you will get is a picture. cant have you up and steal my location. $2,400 for reception and ceremony i think its a really good price. It seats 175 people. the wedding w...

When you have a 6month old work 40 hours a week and take the train an hour in and out and planning a wedding on a BUDGET! You can sometimes find joy in DUMBSHIT. Just because. I do understand that i could be writing about how beautiful my son and my life are HOWEVER. that would be just a tad bit boring. so this is to help get you through your work day.

OH shit - Danger from Ray J of love.... not so innocent!! I knew there was something about her that I just didn't really like. She gave off this really too good for your dumb shit attitude. But you are on a reality show in hopes of becoming the girlfriend of the muthafukka who released his OWN sex tape. Com on!! So lets be real when you thought about coming on the show you had to have at least a tad bit of HOE in you. So in my random searching while I was at work I come across this. PORN NUDE BUSH.... it was to nasty to keep in my blog sorry Maybe this is what she calls artistic, and I guess it is, im not the judge. Then I was like they have only showed one ep. of your show and now you at the Grammy’s …. Really Monica really

2nd ep. Nothing stands out. They are fake. 1st why would you think ray j is really gone fall in love with you, really. the big girl is gone and the mexican girl that said nigga( i was pleased with that) when he had the girls do a video cam talk i was like i have dated a dude on the road and i for sure would not give him a painting. YOU CANT PAINT. that shit looked BAD. a rapp....o my lord this hoe was terrible 100% bad "if it aint about dollars it aint about Nathan" who is Nathan?? silly bitch, get off my tv. chardonnay was the best to me, she did a poem that was not bad and then a banana split on her body. it was fresh. The big girl did a belly dance and it was ALL belly. the hoe danger goes on a date with ray j and makes out with him. 2nd ep. FOR REAL is the rock of love?? LOL but really i was most bothered by what they wore, on a yacht. now i am not a baler however i have seen enough movies to know that going on a big ass boat is NOT like going to the beach. they had on be...

So i really had all intention to have my ray j blog up however. Im in L.A. and there was slow speed chase on tv and i was distracted. folks thought it was DJ Khalid. but it was a regular ass balling business man in a white Bentley. Bentley leads police on slow-speed chase in Los Angeles tonight i got you tho.... raj j coming soon

I only Found out about this, last week. Some Folks LOVE IT!! To me it seems rather CornBall. But This is just some shit, you Prolly should know about AND its funny for the most part. Some info: Michael Jai White stars as Black Dynamite, a man who used to work for the CIA. When his brother gets killed by “the man” and he finds out that “the man” is feeding the local orphans dope, he sets his sights on a path of ass-whooping. No one is immune from Black Dynamite’s fists and guns. The movie has gunplay, kung fu, sex and smack talk. It might not be your cup of tea, but that doesn’t stop this trailer from being awesome Hope you LOVE It read more about it and have a GREAT DAY. http://www.blackdynamite.com/trailer

The women, I mean girls are outrageous and I love it. I do I do. It appears that it is going to be a pretty foolish show. Tons of jokes and Do Yo Daddy Know you do it like THAT! moments So I wont recap the show but I WILL recap the women in no particular order – Picture then Name: Danger : tattoo on her face. Wack wack wack. She is pretty, really however get your shit right you going for the pin up thing with the fire red lips?? If you gone do it do it. She made it seem like she was better then the other girls because they were all over him. "they are making themselves look like sluts" BUT you got on panties and bra. Now I am no angel but if you walking around in your panties and bra just like the "sluts" whats that make you. I'm just saying. She is very pretty in that racially confused kinda way. Chardonnay : 100% why we watch shows like this, who are these girls that feel that strongly about shit. She was feeling no kinda way about pulling her leg up over hea...